{"id":8687,"date":"2023-04-13T18:39:04","date_gmt":"2023-04-13T15:39:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marmarayerelhizmet.com\/?p=8687"},"modified":"2023-04-13T18:39:04","modified_gmt":"2023-04-13T15:39:04","slug":"bu-cagda-cocuk-yetistirmek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marmarayerelhizmet.com\/index.php\/2023\/04\/13\/bu-cagda-cocuk-yetistirmek\/","title":{"rendered":"‘Bu \u00c7a\u011fda \u00c7ocuk Yeti\u015ftirmek’"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ey\u00fcpsultan Belediyesi\u2019nin birbirinden de\u011ferli konuklar\u0131 a\u011f\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 Ramazan Sohbetleri devam ediyor. Ramazan Sohbetleri’ne konuk olan E\u011fitimci-Yazar S\u0131tk\u0131 Aslanhan, \u2018Bu \u00c7a\u011fda \u00c7ocuk Yeti\u015ftirmek\u2019 konulu s\u00f6yle\u015fi ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi.
\n<\/span><\/strong>
\nZal Mahmut Pa\u015fa K\u00fclliyesi\u2019nde teravih namaz\u0131 sonras\u0131 yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00f6yle\u015fide dinleyicilere \u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fa nas\u0131l sahip \u00e7\u0131k\u0131l\u0131r? Cennete lay\u0131k \u00e7ocuklar nas\u0131l yeti\u015ftirilir\u201d konular\u0131nda bilgiler aktaran E\u011fitimci-Yazar S\u0131tk\u0131 Aslanhan, \u201cBana soruyorlar \u2018Ne olacak bu Z ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n hali?\u2019 diye, hep ele\u015ftiriyoruz. Anne babalar ele\u015ftiriyor, e\u011fitimciler ele\u015ftiriyor. Ben \u015funu diyordum; \u2018S\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131, ele\u015ftirilecek taraflar\u0131 var. Bizden \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorlar, hayata \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 bak\u0131yorlar ama \u015funa inan\u0131yorum Allah bu Z ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bu \u00fclkeye \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir noktada hizmet etmek i\u00e7in \u00f6zel yeti\u015ftiriyor.\u2019 T\u00fcrkiye zor bir duruma d\u00fc\u015ferse, o zor durumda elinden tutup bu \u00fclkeyi aya\u011fa kald\u0131raca\u011f\u0131 bir gen\u00e7lik olarak yeti\u015fiyor. 15 Temmuz\u2019da k\u0131smen yapm\u0131\u015flard\u0131. 15 Temmuz gecesi Z ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 dedi\u011fimiz binlerce gencimiz soka\u011fa \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131. O sorunun daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sorun olmas\u0131n\u0131 engelleyen gen\u00e7lerdi\u201d dedi.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za g\u00f6nl\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc a\u00e7al\u0131m\u201d<\/span><\/strong>
\nZ ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n umursamaz olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na vurgu yapan Aslanhan, \u201cEy\u00fcpsultan\u2019dan deprem b\u00f6lgesine yard\u0131m t\u0131rlar\u0131 gitti. O yard\u0131m paketlerini t\u0131rlara gecenin ge\u00e7 saatlerinden sabahlara kadar Z ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 denilen gen\u00e7ler y\u00fckledi. Hani Z ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 umursamazd\u0131. Demek \u00f6yle de\u011filmi\u015f. Yeter ki biz \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za g\u00f6nl\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc a\u00e7al\u0131m\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cO\u011flunuzla birlikte bir ak\u015fam da olsa itikafa girin\u201d<\/span><\/strong>
\nPeygamber Efendimizin s\u00fcnnetlerinden bahseden Aslanhan, \u201cRamazan\u2019\u0131n son g\u00fcnlerine girdik. Peygamber Efendimiz Aleyhissalatu Vesselam\u2019\u0131n t\u00fcm \u00f6mr\u00fc boyunca her Ramazan\u2019da yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir s\u00fcnneti var; itikaf. \u00d6zellikle erkek \u00e7ocu\u011fu olan abilerimden rica ediyorum. Bulundu\u011funuz b\u00f6lgede itikafa girilen size en yak\u0131n camiye iftar saatine do\u011fru gidin, sahura do\u011fru gidin, ertesi g\u00fcn iftarda \u00e7\u0131k\u0131n. O\u011flunuzla beraber bir ak\u015fam da olsa mutlaka itikafa girin. O havay\u0131 koklas\u0131n, o ortam\u0131 teneff\u00fcs etsin, o g\u00fczelli\u011fi, o maneviyat\u0131 bir als\u0131n. Daha k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 olanlar evde bir k\u00f6\u015feyi itikaf k\u00f6\u015fesi yaps\u0131n. Baz\u0131 dostlar\u0131m\u0131z salonun bir k\u00f6\u015fesine harika itikaf \u00e7ad\u0131rlar\u0131 yapm\u0131\u015flard\u0131. \u00c7ocu\u011fun seccadesini, suyunu, hurmas\u0131n\u0131 koymu\u015flar. Kur\u2019an\u2019\u0131n\u0131 orada okuyorlard\u0131. O de\u011ferlerimizi bunun gibi \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalarla \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcne nak\u015fedelim. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z y\u0131lba\u015f\u0131 kutluyor, sevgililer g\u00fcn\u00fc kutluyor diye hep k\u0131z\u0131yoruz. Sen bayramlar\u0131n\u0131, kandillerini, de\u011ferlerini \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne koymazsan b\u00f6yle olur. Evin i\u00e7erisinde yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fczelliklerle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kalbine o g\u00fczelliklerimizi nak\u015fetmemiz laz\u0131m\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za vermeniz gerekeni zaman\u0131nda vermediyseniz yar\u0131n verme ihtimaliniz olmayacak\u201d<\/span><\/strong>
\nS\u0131tk\u0131 Aslanhan, \u2018do\u011fru \u00e7ocuk\u2019 yeti\u015ftirme konusunda annelere ve babalara seslendi. Aslanhan, \u201cAnneler babalar, evleriniz olur, ara\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131z olur, para kazan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z ama \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n en \u00f6nemli d\u00f6neminde kalbine, g\u00f6nl\u00fcne do\u011fru de\u011ferleri koymazsan\u0131z, onlar\u0131n maneviyat\u0131na \u00f6nem vermezseniz, iyi insan olarak yeti\u015fmeleri i\u00e7in gayret g\u00f6stermezseniz yar\u0131n sahip olduklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bir k\u0131ymeti olmayacak. Zaman\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za vermeniz gerekenleri vermediyseniz yar\u0131n verme ihtimaliniz olmayacak. Bakt\u0131k k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z, o\u011flumuz b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za dikildi. ‘Bizim d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizle, fikirlerimizle niye uyu\u015fmuyor? Niye ayr\u0131 d\u00fcnyan\u0131n insan\u0131 oldu?’ dedi\u011fimizde i\u015f i\u015ften ge\u00e7mi\u015f olur\u201d dedi.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcne ne koyduk\u201d<\/span><\/strong>
\n\u00c7ocuklara manevi de\u011ferleri a\u015f\u0131lamak gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yleyen Aslanhan, \u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za en g\u00fczel ayakkab\u0131y\u0131 ald\u0131k, en g\u00fczel k\u0131yafetleri ald\u0131k, en g\u00fczel cep telefonunu ald\u0131k, odalar\u0131n\u0131 en g\u00fczel \u015fekilde donatt\u0131k, d\u00fcnyal\u0131k olarak g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn \u00f6tesinde her t\u00fcrl\u00fc imkan\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131k. Peki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcne ne koyduk? Bu ak\u015fam e\u015finizle beraber oturdu\u011funuzda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcne neleri koymu\u015fuz l\u00fctfen bir sorun. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za bir soral\u0131m bakal\u0131m bizden ne \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015fler? Biz \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za neyi \u00f6\u011fretmenin derdindeyiz\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ey\u00fcpsultan Belediyesi\u2019nin birbirinden de\u011ferli konuklar\u0131 a\u011f\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 Ramazan Sohbetleri devam ediyor. Ramazan Sohbetleri’ne konuk olan E\u011fitimci-Yazar S\u0131tk\u0131 Aslanhan, \u2018Bu \u00c7a\u011fda \u00c7ocuk<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":8693,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","footnotes":""},"categories":[1,5,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8687","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel","category-gundem","category-siyaset"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/marmarayerelhizmet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8687","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/marmarayerelhizmet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/marmarayerelhizmet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marmarayerelhizmet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marmarayerelhizmet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8687"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/marmarayerelhizmet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8687\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marmarayerelhizmet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8693"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/marmarayerelhizmet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8687"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marmarayerelhizmet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8687"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marmarayerelhizmet.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8687"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}