{"id":20387,"date":"2024-01-18T09:58:44","date_gmt":"2024-01-18T06:58:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marmarayerelhizmet.com\/?p=20387"},"modified":"2024-01-18T09:58:44","modified_gmt":"2024-01-18T06:58:44","slug":"velilere-karne-gunu-tavsiyeleri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marmarayerelhizmet.com\/index.php\/2024\/01\/18\/velilere-karne-gunu-tavsiyeleri\/","title":{"rendered":"Velilere Karne G\u00fcn\u00fc Tavsiyeleri"},"content":{"rendered":"

Milyonlarca \u00f6\u011frenci 19 Ocak Cuma g\u00fcn\u00fc son ders ziliyle yar\u0131y\u0131l tatiline girerken, anne ve babalar da karneleri g\u00f6r\u00fcnce \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na y\u00f6nelik davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla s\u0131nav verecek. Ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n takdir edilmesini, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa abart\u0131l\u0131 tepki verilmemesini, k\u0131yaslama yap\u0131lmamas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6neren uzmanlar, sadece akademik ba\u015far\u0131ya odaklanman\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fimini zedeleyece\u011fi uyar\u0131s\u0131 yap\u0131yor.
\n<\/span><\/strong>
\nOkullarda 2023 – 2024 birinci d\u00f6nem sonu yakla\u015f\u0131rken, \u00f6\u011frencileri de karne heyecan\u0131 sard\u0131. S\u00f6mestr tatili 19 Ocak Cuma g\u00fcn\u00fc milyonlarca \u00f6\u011frencinin karnelerini almas\u0131yla ba\u015flayacak. Baz\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenciler i\u00e7in sevin\u00e7 ve gurur kayna\u011f\u0131, baz\u0131lar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc ve kayg\u0131 kayna\u011f\u0131 olabilecek karnelerle ilgili anne ve babalar\u0131n verecekleri tepki ve davran\u0131\u015flar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n tatili nas\u0131l ge\u00e7ireceklerini belirleyecek.<\/span>
\nBah\u00e7e\u015fehir Koleji Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k ve Rehberlik (PDR) Direkt\u00f6r\u00fc Sibel Durak ve U\u011fur Okullar\u0131 ve U\u011fur Kurs Genel M\u00fcd\u00fcr Yard\u0131mc\u0131s\u0131 Adil Kurt, ebeveynlere ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 veya ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z karne alan \u00e7ocuklara nas\u0131l davranmalar\u0131, nas\u0131l bir tatil planlamalar\u0131 konusunda \u00f6nerilerde bulundu.<\/span>
\nKarnenin \u00e7ocu\u011fun birinci d\u00f6nem boyunca sergiledi\u011fi performansla ilgili bilgi verebilece\u011fini ancak tek \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fct olarak de\u011ferlendirmenin do\u011fru olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyen Bah\u00e7e\u015fehir Koleji Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k ve Rehberlik (PDR) Direkt\u00f6r\u00fc Sibel Durak \u201c\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun geli\u015fimindeki t\u00fcm s\u00fcre\u00e7leri dikkate al\u0131n. Bunlar\u0131 bir b\u00fct\u00fcn olarak de\u011ferlendirin. Sadece akademik olarak ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmaya odaklanmak \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun geli\u015fimini zedeler\u2019\u2019 dedi.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u0130\u00e7ten bir aferin yeter\u201d<\/span><\/strong>
\nKarnedeki notlar beklentilerin alt\u0131nda olsa bile ele\u015ftirmek yerine bir s\u00fcre i\u00e7in \u00e7ocu\u011fun bu s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131dan uzakla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayacak \u015fekilde, ebeveyn – \u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisinin kalitesini art\u0131rmak i\u00e7in birlikte zaman ge\u00e7irilmesini \u00f6neren Durak, \u015f\u00f6yle konu\u015ftu: \u201cKarne d\u00f6nemlerinde \u00e7ok s\u0131k yap\u0131lan hatalardan bir tanesi de k\u0131yas yapmakt\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk her \u015fartta, olumsuz durumlarda da ailesinin tutarl\u0131 ve destekleyici yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmelidir. Bu d\u00f6nemde aileler, iyi niyetle, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir karneye maddi bir \u00f6d\u00fclle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k verir. Ancak yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken elde edilen ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n fark edilmesi, i\u00e7ten bir \u2018Aferin\u2019 ve s\u0131cak bir kucaklay\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7ocukta i\u00e7 motivasyonun olu\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in bir d\u00f6nem boyunca g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi \u00e7abaya vurgu yap\u0131lmal\u0131, ba\u015far\u0131, iyilik, g\u00fczel davran\u0131\u015flar abart\u0131lmadan takdir edilmelidir.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Abart\u0131l\u0131 tepkilerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n<\/span><\/strong>
\nU\u011fur Okullar\u0131 ve U\u011fur Kurs Genel M\u00fcd\u00fcr Yard\u0131mc\u0131s\u0131 Adil Kurt da ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z karne getiren \u00f6\u011frenciye olumsuz davran\u0131lmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini belirterek, \u201cAbart\u0131l\u0131 tepkilerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmal\u0131. \u00d6\u011frencinin eksik oldu\u011fu taraflar\u0131n de\u011fil, yapabilece\u011fi ama\u00e7lar hat\u0131rlat\u0131lmal\u0131. \u0130yi y\u00f6nleri daha fazla \u00f6n plana al\u0131nmal\u0131, olumlu duygular, ba\u015fard\u0131\u011f\u0131 sosyal, duygusal y\u00f6nleri desteklenmeli. Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z karnenin akademik hayat\u0131na nas\u0131l etki yapabilece\u011fi anlat\u0131l\u0131p y\u00fcreklendirilerek \u00f6\u011frenciye biricik ve \u00f6zel oldu\u011fu, isterse her \u015feyi yapabilece\u011fi mutlaka hat\u0131rlat\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d dedi. Kurt, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 karneye kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7ocuklara maddi de\u011feri y\u00fcksek \u00f6d\u00fcller verilmesinin de \u00f6\u011frenciyi hedefi ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirme iste\u011finden uzakla\u015ft\u0131raca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ba\u015far\u0131 \u00f6d\u00fcllendirilmesi yerine harcan\u0131lan \u00e7aba ve \u00f6zveriden dolay\u0131 keyifli bir etkinlik ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilmesini \u00f6nererek, \u015f\u00f6yle konu\u015ftu: \u201c\u00d6\u011frencinin sevdi\u011fi bir aktiviteyi sadece zamanlamas\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ferek karne g\u00fcn\u00fcnden sonra bir d\u00f6nemde ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek hem onun daha iyi hissetmesini sa\u011flar hem de karne motivasyonu edinmesine destek olur. Abart\u0131l\u0131 hediyeler ikinci d\u00f6nem ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 olumsuz etkileyebilir. \u00d6\u011frenci istedi\u011fi hedefe ula\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hediyesi al\u0131nmayaca\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesine kap\u0131larak kayg\u0131 seviyesini y\u00fckseltir ve kayg\u0131 artt\u0131k\u00e7a ba\u015far\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fer.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

K\u0131yaslama yapmay\u0131n<\/span><\/strong>
\nAnne ve babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fimi ve e\u011fitiminde s\u0131k\u00e7a yapt\u0131klar\u0131 hatalardan birinin \u201ck\u0131yaslama\u201d oldu\u011funa dikkat \u00e7eken Kurt, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ebeveynleri taraf\u0131ndan ba\u015fka bir \u00e7ocukla k\u0131yas yap\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131nda kendilerini de\u011fersiz ve yetersiz hissettiklerini, \u00f6zg\u00fcven geli\u015fimlerinin zedelendi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi. Kurt, \u201c\u00d6\u011frencinin ba\u015fka bir \u00f6\u011frenciyle k\u0131yaslanmas\u0131 yerine bir \u00f6nceki e\u011fitim d\u00f6nemindeki durumuyla k\u0131yaslanabilir. Bu, hedefine do\u011fru nas\u0131l ad\u0131m atmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fiyle ilgili bilgi sahibi olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r. Ba\u015fka \u00f6\u011frenciyle k\u0131yaslama yaparsan\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuz kendi \u00e7abas\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fclmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 b\u0131rakabilir, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olsa da kendisine inan\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir\u201d dedi.
\n<\/span>
\nTatilde en az bir g\u00fcn ekrandan uzakla\u015f\u0131n<\/span><\/strong>
\nYar\u0131y\u0131l tatilini \u00f6\u011frenciler nas\u0131l de\u011ferlendirmeli sorusunu yan\u0131tlayan PDR uzman\u0131 Sibel Durak, yar\u0131y\u0131l tatilinin \u00f6\u011frenilmemi\u015f ve anla\u015f\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f konular\u0131n peki\u015ftirilmesi i\u00e7in bir f\u0131rsat olabilece\u011fini belirterek, velilerin g\u00fcn\u00fcn belli saatlerinde \u00e7ocu\u011fa destek vererek, s\u0131kmadan ve h\u0131rpalamadan eksiklerini tamamlamaya y\u00f6nelik yap\u0131lacak tekrarlarla \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n derslerden kopmamalar\u0131n\u0131n sa\u011flanabilece\u011fini s\u00f6yledi. Durak, baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n tatilde ailelerinden s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z bilgisayar ve internet isteyebilece\u011fine dikkat \u00e7ekerek, \u201cBu, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sosyal ya\u015fant\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n zenginle\u015fmesi, zihinsel s\u00fcre\u00e7lerinin tazelenmesi ve dinlenmesinin aksine negatif bir etki olu\u015fturabilir. Bilgisayar ve internet s\u00fcreleri a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya ka\u00e7madan kontrol alt\u0131nda devam ettirilmeli ve haftan\u0131n en az bir g\u00fcn\u00fc ekrans\u0131z g\u00fcn olmal\u0131\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.
\n<\/span>
\n\u201cS\u0131k\u0131lmalar\u0131na zaman tan\u0131y\u0131n\u2019\u2019<\/span><\/strong>
\nAilelerin tatillerde \u00e7ocuklardan en \u00e7ok \u201cs\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131m\u201d s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc duydu\u011funu vurgulayan Sibel Durak, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kendi ba\u015flar\u0131na zaman ge\u00e7irmeleri ve s\u0131k\u0131lmaya kar\u015f\u0131 ba\u015f etme becerisi geli\u015ftirmeleri i\u00e7inde f\u0131rsat tan\u0131nmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yledi. Oyun ve do\u011fan\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in en verimli \u00f6\u011frenme ortamlar\u0131 oldu\u011funu belirten Durak, \u015f\u00f6yle konu\u015ftu:<\/span>
\n\u201cDo\u011fa y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fc ya da birden \u00e7ok y\u00f6nergenin takip edilmesi gereken oyunlar fark\u0131nda olmaks\u0131z\u0131n bir\u00e7ok kazan\u0131ma ortam olu\u015fturur. Tatil, \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in \u00f6\u011frenmeye farkl\u0131 bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 getirme ve kitap okuma al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 destekleme \u015fans\u0131 da sunar. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ya\u015flar\u0131na uygun kitaplarla birlikte okuma zaman\u0131 olu\u015fturarak hem e\u011flenceli vakit ge\u00e7irebilir hem de beyinlerini besleyebilirsiniz.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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